Sunday, April 27, 2008

Katelynn turns 14!

Katelynn and Daniel being "cool" in sunglasses.

I wish I could post lots of cute pictures of Katelynn on her birthday, but my kids seem to love taking videos with my camera and often use up all the juice in the battery and also the spare battery. That is what happened on Katelynn's birthday...so no pictures. Hopefully I can find a recent picture of her. In our house, the girls can wear makeup when they turn 14. So as you can imagine, Katelynn has been counting down the days until she could wear makeup. She does pretty good but you must know our secret.

My mother-in-law Nona, gave me a piece of advice 2 years ago that at first I was resistant too, but was able to see the great wisdom in her advice. She suggested I let Katelynn have makeup of her own and practice, because when she is 12 she will listen to you about applying makeup, but when she is 14 she won't want to hear your suggestions. Well, she couldn't have been more right. Katelynn was allowed to put makeup on whenever she wanted as long as she took it off right afterwards. She would come out afterwards and show me and so I could suggest that something should be lighter and more blended in. She even took pictures of herself to see what it looked like.

But on April 15, my advice and counsel was no longer needed just like Nona had said. Katelynn doesn't want any help with putting her makeup on so I am so thankful for the past 2 years of practicing. She is such a beautiful girl without makeup but I know how it feels when you are a teenager. You feel like you need the makeup.

Unfortunately, Katelynn's birthday landed on a crazy day in our house. School, work, gymnastics, hip hop were all squeezed in there. But to really make us feel busy our favorite TV show "The Biggest Loser" was having their 2 hour finale and none of us wanted to miss it. I gave Katelynn the option of celebrating her birthday one day early and she said NO! So I let her decide when we opened presents and had her cake(which she chose cherry cheesecake). Her solution to this was to open a present during each of the commercial breaks and then during one of the longer breaks we sat around eating cheesecake. Not real normal, but a memory nonetheless.

I would like to say that I am totally enjoying these teenage years so far, but I would be lying. But I can say that there are moments when I do enjoy having a 14 year old at my house. She attended her first church dance a week ago. I got to pick up some of the kids afterwards and hear about it. That was one of those moments. It was fun to hear about her night. She was asked by a few boys which really make a mom happy. But what was really cute was by the time we got home(dance was in Spokane...about 25 minutes away) she was looking like she was asleep. It was about 11:00pm. She is still little inside sometimes and I love that.

1 comment:

Jodi said...

I can't believe you have a 14 year old! I can't even imagine. And I especially can't imagine a teenage daughter. I remember LOVING youth dances! Fun times for you and Ben ahead! She's beautiful - you're going to have lots of boys at the door!!